And we wonder why guys think we are dumb....

Here are some of the reasons guys think we (females) might be dumb. Let's change how we are seen, shall we?


1.) Quit taking selfies as you drive your child(ren) around. We all see the car seat and the little booger in the back. Or the light up shoe behind your head that you tried to crop out. We aren't idiots. Pay attention to the road and put your child's life before your Facebook profile pic. Please.

2.) Needing at least 3 girlfriends to go to the potty with. Is a monster in there? Are you going to be mugged? Scared of the pee pee monster? Are you five? Come on, ladies. After like age 16 quit it. Even then, it's annoying. Makes us look like we can't handle things on our own if we can't even go pee without a companion.

3.) Sending sexts and nudes after talking to a guy for 2.5 seconds. Are you kidding me? You call all these guys d-bags and players but if there aren't enough dumb girls to fuel his fire, he wouldn't be able to be one. Quit making it easy for these idiots to do this to us. Stop dirty talking a guy after he sends you a friend request and then crying all night because he never actually calls wanting a real date with you. Also, maybe you should look him up on the many apps and sites these days where previous girls rate guys. Let's use that brain up there, please.

4.) Posting about the partying, dating, money spending you are doing when you have a child at home. It's obvious you aren't taking care of the little one. But when you post how wasted you got last night, come on. Whether you had your baby at 16 or 38, you have to realize you have to grow up now. If you are a young mom, accept the fact you need to be an adult for the next 18 years pretty much and give up the teenage/college life. I mainly see this on Twitter. We know you are a mother, yet you post more inappropriate things than anyone else. Grow. up.



5.) Acting dumb for a guy to like you. Whether you really do have a brain or not, playing even stupider (ha ha, get it?) won't help your case. I see people often acting dumb to get likes. Girls mainly. Show off your brains! And stop acting like you like/don't like things to impress others. If a guy just wants a dumb blonde, let him find another one. Start worrying about things like your career goals, what inspires you most, instead of what color dress you need for that party or what Callie said Jason said that Maria did last week with John.

6.) Caring about social activities more than studies/work/your future. So what comes to mind when I say 'Sorority'. They are always thought of being full of the dumb, bimbo, party hard, easy college girls. Annoying girls that got into college because the family money got them there. What if that wasn't the case? The idea of a sorority is awesome, having a family at school, when you are away from home. Having a lifetime full of sisters and love. But it has been trashed and made into something known as annoying and ridiculous because of the girls who joined. We could change that. We could show the world college girls are intelligent, loving, smart, and wonderful beings. So put some panties on, open those textbooks, and show the real reason you got into that college, the spark that school saw that made them want you. Quit going to parties, flashing your boobs for money, and change out that vodka tonic for an iced coffee.

7.) Letting guys feel like they make the rules, for both of you. Speak up. Quit being afraid to open up and being honest if something bothers you because you are afraid 'he'll leave you'. Who cares if he leaves you? Don't depend on him, you can make it without anyone. And you'll do well to remember that and to believe it. If he forgot something and it really upset you, let it be known. Don't be timid. That puts the image that we females are fragile, and we aren't. We are made to handle a lot, men don't bleed once a month and birth children, right? We can handle it, and it's okay to be tough. Show you won't take anyone's crap.

8.) Making you sound like you are dying once a month. If you have a vagina, you bleed once a month. Unless you got tubes tied, or whatever you changed. Now, if you really do have medical problems with terrible cramps, etc. you probably do have serious pain, but they have medicine and stuff for it these days, so you still don't have much of an excuse. Quit acting surprised, quit acting like you are dying. You have had this happen to you 12 times a year since you were a pre-teen probably. And quit saying things like 'At least I'm not pregnant'. Really? Do you know how that makes you sound? That you are dumb, sexually active, and obviously not taking the precautions to prevent a pregnancy. Stick a tampon in, take some Midol, and get on with life. Like a woman.

9.) The birth control issue. It shouldn't be an issue. You should be able to use your brain if the guy isn't. Sex and love are two different things. If someone loves you, they'll understand you aren't willing to risk this. But girls are known for letting a guy think with his second head and do his deed and you are left worrying if you are pregnant until your monthly visitor time comes. And even then, you worry alone, not telling him that you are afraid you could be pregnant. Can we quit this? It takes two to tango. And when it comes down to the dirty deed, guys are sex obsessed. It's the truth. It's what rules in their world. So since we normally aren't programmed like that, can we be the bigger person and flat out say 'no'. Say NO! And can you start setting an alarm and caring more about taking your BC on time? Please?
Guys aren't worried about it but you are, don't just think 'if I don't have sex with him right now, even though we don't have a condom/the pill/money for Plan B he won't love me'.

10. Abbreviating everything. LMAO, I totes saw her pic on FaBo. Isn't it gorge? OMG, obvi she is doing something right!
QUIT IT! You look so dumb if you can't even spell out or fully pronounce words. Simple words, at that. Like 'selfie' being the latest, and it's the number one word for the year 2013? Are we really that bad? How about you take those social media sites you are posting 29378943 pictures of yourself in the same position/clothes/hair, and follow pages that will educate you? Learn something knew. Feed your brain instead of your ego.

11.) Acting like Facebook/Twitter/Instagram is your model portfolio. Pretty self explanatory. We all have the one girl on our friend list who posts all her problems daily (I have a headache, feed me, cuddle me, give me attention) who also posts her daily photo session in the bathroom. The sad thing is, on my end, the person who does this most is also a single mom. Quit wasting time on the internet. Go play with your child, read a book, take a class, get a part time job, I don't care just better yourself.

12.) Being clones of one another. Can we stop with all having the same purses, the same yoga pants, walking around with big 'sunnies' on our faces, getting our gel polish done, and carrying around Starbs? Can we some how quit acting like other people, especially people we don't even know? That Mocha, designer bag, and Lulu Lemons aren't making you a better person. They aren't improving the world, they aren't changing anything. This is why the majority of people are in debt, and why problems like eating disorders are around. People hate themselves, the way they are. Instead, they dream day and night of becoming just like that celebrity, or that model, or even that girl at school. Quit hating yourself. Quit changing yourself to be like someone else. It's okay that your thighs touch, it's ok if you can't actually afford that $500 bag.

13.) Apologizing for everything. 'I'm sorry, I ordered fries, not onion rings.' 'I'm sorry, I don't think this is mine.' 'Oh, I'm so sorry. I didn't know.' 'I'm sorry I say sorry all the time for no reason.' Does this sound familiar? Probably. I find that most of us feel the need to apologize for everything. Is it necessary? Of course not.So stop apologizing if someone else messed up, stop saying you're sorry you didn't know you were meant to do something, and stop apologizing for someone else giving you the wrong thing. Most of these situations, you shouldn't be the sorry one at all. Instead, you should be the one being apologized to. Make a mental attempt to zip it with the S word.

14.) Before asking a really stupid question, use Google. We all have brain farts. We all do. No matter how smart you really are. I forgot how to spell use not long ago, I was also sick as a dog and just woke up. It happens. But before I asked the stupid question, I found the answer myself. Think before you ask/type/speak. Or be like this girl:

REALLY?!

So let's use our brain, shall we?